Thursday, July 12, 2012

Chinese vs. Taiwanese girls on dating sites: See the difference in attitude!

Hi all,
I'd like to demonstrate a big attitude difference between Chinese and Taiwanese girls with some real examples I've experienced from dating sites. Now you'd think that they'd be similar since they came from the same culture, language and ethnicity, but it turns out not to be so at all.

On dating sites, I've written many women in both China and Taiwan. The difference in attitude has been astounding. For example, here is a typical response I get from Chinese women (which I have a high response rate from):

"Thank you for your sincere letter.
You are an excellent man. Hope someday I could manage my own business like you.I can't believe that a man like you ,so excellent,has no girlfriend.Maybe you have many chasers, but you just haven't met your real girl.
You look a little like my school counsellor.But he is much younger than you.You two both are handsome.??
Hope we can be friends.
Regards"


As you can see, she was complimentary and enthusiastic. The example was from PlentyofFish.

In contrast, 99 percent of the Taiwanese women I write to don't reply at all, and if they do, they only write one lame line. Here is one example from PlentyofFish:

"You just copied and pasted your intro. Isn't it a bit too lazy?"

After I explained to her that I only send out a form letter the first time to save time and be efficient, and that subsequent letters would be personalized, she disappeared and had nothing to say back.

Obviously, she wasn't even interested in me. She just wanted to make a wise-crack remark at me. (Gee thanks. We get enough of that from Western women, why go to Taiwan? Sheesh.) This clearly reflects a spoiled attitude. She didn't tell me about herself or comment on my letter at all. So much for friendly sincere correspondence...

Here is another one liner response from a Taiwanese girl with no point, also on PlentyofFish:

"I am gonna move to Taipei soon too:/"

I don't know why she said that. It had nothing to do with my letter nor did I indicate that I was moving to Taipei. It was a pointless airhead response. She didn't tell me about herself or comment on my letter at all.

Another time, on OkCupid, I wrote many Taiwanese girls and got only one response:

"sorry you're not my type"

Enough said.

On the other hand, see this response from a high quality sincere sweet girl in Shenzhen, China that I've been corresponding with for a long time. When I first wrote her, this was her first initial response:

"Hello Winston,
How are you?

Firstly, Please accept my apology of late reply because i haven't been checking the account for a while. i was so happy just now to read your email this afternoon, you seems a very nice person from email and your photos.
Meanwhile i am also glad that you like my profile and photos. I guess you must be a very patient,romantic,gentle and passionate people, the kind of which,however, i am looking for.

Secoldly, a little about me? I am 25years girl, living and working in the city of Shenzhen where it's near to HongKong, have you been to either of them?
I am a buyer working for an exporting company, I like reading, chatting with nice friends, listening to romantic music and also I like TRAVELLING. hehe..

Finally, Iam so happy to hear about your compliment about Chinese girl and you like Chinese girl.
As for myself, I am seriously looking for a boyfriend as well, the relationship of which might possibly lead to a marriage.
Maybe we can try to get to know each other more better and who knows, we might be the one that we have been looking for.

BTW, when you will go China? have you ever been China before?
hehe, i speak Mandarin, Cantonese, and some English, if there is a chance, i could teach you more Mandarin or even Cantonese, and because of my oral english is not that good, maybe i need your help too. hehe.

Best wishes and talk to you soon."


As you can see, she is sincere, sweet, positive, and enthusiastic. And she introduced herself with a proper letter. Now this is the kind of response that authentic sincere guys like me dream of receiving. With Chinese women, that dream becomes a reality. But I NEVER get a letter like that from anyone in Taiwan!

In her letter, you can see that she is feminine, sweet, sincere, down to earth, and educated as well - what more could you ask for? That's what every normal guy wants, a girl that's sweet, feminine and down to earth. It's not a lot to ask for, yet in spoiled westernized countries like Taiwan and America, where women have a bad attitude, it seems like it's too much to ask for. In such cultures, expecting women to be nice, sincere, and open is unrealistic and asking for too much. Sheesh. What a difference location makes eh?

Well that's the beauty of it. Location often makes all the difference. It's a simple yet taboo secret. Yet you are never told this by mainstream media or conventional sources. Instead, you are given the illusion that people are the same everywhere. What a pity.

This is why I like showing you all such differences, so you can see how real they are, even though other websites don't talk about them. Hope you all appreciate that. As you know, I'm the type that tells truths that others don't have the guts to tell. I guess it's taboo and "uncool" to make such comparisons, but nevertheless they are VERY REAL, as demonstrated in my experiences depicted above.

As you know, there is an unspoken rule in this world that when you speak or write publicly, you are only allowed to say nice, polite, positive, lighthearted things about people and places. The only time you are allowed to talk about negative things is if it's on the news - which is usually related to jobs, economics, disasters, etc. But as to the topic of spoiled rotten people with bad attitudes in westernized countries, no way, you aren't allowed to talk about that. It's taboo. But as you know, I don't give a @#$% about taboos. I just tell it like it is, and I back up what I say with real examples and valid arguments and reasons.

So you gotta wonder: Why the big difference? What is the problem? Who is the problem? Is it me or the sterile environment of Taiwan and the overly picky spoiled girls who are cold and stuck up?

If the problem is me, then how come girls in many other countries treat me better, are more warm and open, and more enthusiastic and appreciative toward me? Why do I feel so much more valuable to foreign girls? They make me FEEL so much better about myself. How can I feel like a totally different person to women from different cultures? The difference is staggering. It's like I'm two different people - a worthless guy in Taiwan, and a valued desired guy in many other countries.

It's really weird how location changes everything and makes all the difference.

Before anyone attacks me, let me ask you this: If you were me, would you prefer to feel wanted, desired and valuable? Or unwanted, undesired and worthless? Which one?

23 comments:

  1. Nice post.
    Thanks for sharing this one.

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  2. If I were you it really feels good if someone wants and desired to be with you. It is also highly appreciated if someone values you alot. In this world to love and being loved is one of the nicest feeling you could ever imagine.

    For the comparison between the two girls well, it's obvious that the chinese girl is nicer than the taiwanese one. I hope that you will really find someone who deserves you.

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  3. Whilst I understand the want to be desired to judge s whole nation of females purely from one dating website is incredibly narrow minded. I have lived in Taiwan now for over 2 years and the average female is kind and generous and sweet. yes like every country in the world it has its arrogant and nasty girls but your assessment couldnt be further from the truth in regards to the average Taiwanese female. when using English the Chinese are much more confident than taiwanese. in my experience the Taiwanese often misunderstand what I'm saying and to be honest it looks that in a couple of your examples.
    I hope u find a nice Chinese girl as I have nothing against Chinese females or yourself. I just hate to see such a kind and gentle nation of females grossly misrepresented like this.

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  7. With all the online dating and social sites, is it possible to find true love there? It was a question I ask to myself and many ppl for sure asking themselves the same question and I found the answer on globogirls.com There are a lot of different people in different countries, but some good ones too. I had been doing it for about 2 months, when I met someone. We have been dating in person for one month and we traveled together, it is going really well. I don't know if we will ever be in love or spend the rest of our lives together, but I am enjoying being with him while I can. My suggestion to anyone doing online dating is be safe, cautious, and honest. I guess that globogirls.com will help you a lot.

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  8. If you want others to be nice to you, you gotta appear sincere first. But now go get a mirror and look into yourself. Ewwww.

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  9. YOu poor little sad boy.

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  10. I am a taiwanese girl.
    However, I don‘t agree with you at all.
    Not all the girls in Taiwan are like who you met in dating sites,they can‘t represent all of us.
    On the other hand, they might just show their true self to you,they don‘t want to write a lot of fake and hypocritical words to make you feel desired and good.
    It‘s on internet,they don‘t need to do something to ingratiate you,and furthermore,they don‘t want you feel disappointed after you both talked so much and you feel you might have the chance to get a closer relationship.
    There are still many well-mannered,courteous and good girls in Taiwan.
    Please do not paint every with the same brush.
    Thank you.

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  11. so the Taiwanese girls called you on your shit and the mainland girls catered to your ego in an effort to meet you (presumably for profoundly shallow reasons)?

    also you have to use a dating site meet girls in Taiwan?

    ALSO you continue to live in a country you "hate" and blog about your inability to move back to whatever rock you crawled out from?

    we have a winner!

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    1. You just mad Winston gets the hottest European girls and now even the Hottest American white girls which are 10x better than asian girls with shitty proportions and no tits or ass.

      This is all thanks to Kpop and mainstream media dying on the surface but i seen a lot of changes when I met Winston recently since 2009

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  12. You have a big insecurity issue my friend... you are not looking for sincerity at all, you're looking for compliments and ego-boosters.

    "sorry you're not my type" is clearly the most honest answer I can see in your post and still -of course- you didn't like it at all.

    I have no problem about insecurity issues until they become judgemental and criticize harshly an entire country, giving a lot of people the wrong idea.

    I'm an European guy, nothing to do with Taiwan or China, but I have backpacked and lived all around Asia and South East Asia and I have found Taiwanese people to be between the warmest and most friendly.

    You should probably just go to the poorest area of the poorest country you can find. Girls will be more flattery there and you will like them better.

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  13. You have a big insecurity issue my friend... you are not looking for sincerity at all, you're looking for compliments and ego-boosters.

    "sorry you're not my type" is clearly the most honest answer I can see in your post and still -of course- you didn't like it at all.

    I have no problem about insecurity issues until they become judgemental and criticize harshly an entire country, giving a lot of people the wrong idea.

    I'm an European guy, nothing to do with Taiwan or China, but I have backpacked and lived all around Asia and South East Asia and I have found Taiwanese people to be between the warmest and most friendly.

    You should probably just go to the poorest area of the poorest country you can find. Girls will be more flattery there and you will like them better.

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